"Finding yourself"
is not really how it works.
You aren't a ten dollar bill
in last winter's coat pocket.
You are also not lost.
Your true self is right there, buried
under cultural conditioning, other
people's opinions, and inaccurate
conclusions you drew as a kid that
became your beliefs about who you are.
"Finding yourself" is actually
returning to yourself.
An unlearning, an excavation,
a remembering of who you were
before the world got its hands on you.