30. April 2021

Cool Girl-Monologue from "Gone Girl" by Gillian Flynn

Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl. Being the "Cool Girl" means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping, who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes and anal sex, and jams hot dogs and hamburgers into her mouth like she’s hosting the world’s biggest culinary gang bang while somehow maintaining a size 2, because Cool Girls are above all hot. Hot and understanding. Cool Girls never get angry; they only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and let their men do whatever they want. Go ahead, shit on me, I don’t mind, I’m the Cool Girl.
Men actually think this girl exists. Maybe they’re fooled because so many women are willing to pretend to be this girl. For a long time Cool Girl offended me. I used to see men – friends, coworkers, strangers – giddy over these awful pretender women, and I’d want to sit these men down and calmly say: You are not dating a woman, you are dating a woman who has watched too many movies written by socially awkward men who’d like to believe that this kind of woman exists and might kiss them. I’d want to grab the poor guy by his lapels or messenger bag and say: The bitch doesn’t really love chili dogs that much – no one loves chili dogs that much! And the Cool Girls are even more pathetic: They’re not even pretending to be the woman they want to be, they’re pretending to be the woman a man wants them to be. Oh, and if you’re not a Cool Girl, I beg you not to believe that your man doesn’t want the Cool Girl. It may be a slightly different version – maybe he’s a vegetarian, so Cool Girl loves seitan and is great with dogs; or maybe he’s a hipster artist, so Cool Girl is a tattooed, bespectacled nerd who loves comics. There are variations to the window dressing, but believe me, he wants Cool Girl, who is basically the girl who likes every fucking thing he likes and doesn’t ever complain. (How do you know you’re not Cool Girl? Because he says things like: “I like strong women.” If he says that to you, he will at some point fuck someone else. Because “I like strong women” is code for “I hate strong women.”)

6. April 2021

"Frankenstein" by Mary Shelley

I have love in me the likes of which 
you can scarcely imagine
and rage the likes of which 
you would not believe. 
If I cannot satisfy the one, 
I will indulge the other.

5. April 2021

Lao-Tzu

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, 
while loving someone deeply gives you courage.

4. April 2021

Cruella DeVille, OUAT

Marriage. 
More good women have been lost to marriage 
than to war, famine, disease, and disaster.
You have talent, darling. Don't squander it.

28. März 2021

Molière

Wir sind nicht nur verantwortlich für das, was wir tun,
sondern auch für das, was wir nicht tun.

27. März 2021

the reason why you love someone is because 

of the little things 

the light in their smile

26. März 2021

"LMLY" by Jackson Wang

"Pretty Please" by Jackson Wang & Galantis

20. März 2021

"Siege and Storm" by Leigh Bardugo

What is infinite?
The universe and
the greed of men.

18. Februar 2021

LILI's Film (The Movie)


 

15. Februar 2021


 

"莲 (Lit)" by LAY


 

10. Februar 2021

Dr. Colleen Reichmann

If you have ever found yourself using 
your body as a canvas to express pain
nonverbally, please know that there is
no shame in this.

You were surviving in the best way you
knew how.

You were not "manipulative". You were
surviving. Period.


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8. Februar 2021

27. Januar 2021

PCOS Conversations


10. Januar 2021

Vironika Tugaleva

What if no one is coming 
 to discover your hidden talents, 
   to heal you, 
    to save you from yourself? 

What if your savior was always supposed to be you?

27. Dezember 2020

if it doesn't bring you energy, inspiration or orgasm

it doesn't belong in your life.

 After this year,

I actually want to give 

myself a big hug because

I am still standing.

"Zeit zu tanzen" von Silbermond

Bei all dem Lärm um nichts,
bei all dem Smog, der uns umgibt,
ist es ab und zu Zeit zu tanzen.
Bei all den Gründen zu verzweifeln,
bei allem, was uns um die Ohren fliegt,
ist es hin und wieder Zeit zu tanzen.

"Bloom for Yourself" by April Green

 the earth needs to feel you

the most tragic thing a woman can do is
feel undeserving of the space they take up;
make themselves smaller, shrink.

you must learn to rise every morning
with the unapologetic belief that the
air you breathe belongs to you as much as it
belongs to anyone else.

11. Dezember 2020

Arthur C. Clarke

I don't believe in astrology; 
I'm a Sagittarius and 
we’re skeptical.

6. Dezember 2020

"Breath(넌 날 숨 쉬게 해)" by GOT7


5. Dezember 2020

Fjodor Dostojewski

Wenn es keinen Gott gibt,
dann ist alles erlaubt.

27. November 2020

Camus

Niemand realisiert, dass einige Menschen enorm viel Energie aufwenden, nur, um normal zu sein.

~Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal.

17. November 2020

Flugmodus" von Clueso


 

3. November 2020


 

24. Oktober 2020

Minh D. Tran

Großartiges Design besteht im Weglassen aller unnötigen Details. 

23. Oktober 2020

"Über Gewicht: Mein dickes Leben" von Natalie Rosenke

Natalie Rosenke ist »Ü100«: Bei 1,60 Metern Körpergröße wiegt sie mehr als 100 Kilo. Das ist für sie kein Problem – für viele andere Menschen aber schon. Hier erzählt die 41-Jährige, was es heißt, als dicker Mensch in einer Gesellschaft zu leben, die dünn zu ihrem Ideal erklärt hat. Rosenke ist Vorsitzende der Gesellschaft gegen Gewichtsdiskriminierung. 

https://sz-magazin.sueddeutsche.de/tag/ueber-gewicht-mein-dickes-leben

22. Oktober 2020

"Home;Run" by Seventeen (세븐틴)

don't step back. don't listen to anyone. 
just do whatever you want ... when the ball comes to you, 
you still have one chance left. don't give up.

just be yourself.
what are so worried about?

"Perm" by Bruno Mars

 Throw some perm on your attitude